Hi guyssss! How's february so far? Hope it has been a good one!
But if not, I'm sure March will be a better one so look forward to the start of a new month!!
Today, I would like to blog about something I'm thankful for which happened in my life but yet still find it kinda unbelievable..
And that is,
F.R.I.E.N.D.S
Yep that's right, my secondary school friends.
My clique of used-to-be very close friends during secondary school times but we kinda distanced ever since graduation and after we move on to our next phase of tertiary education.
I'm not sure if it is the same for all of them but this is how it occurred to me or rather how I personally feel about our friendships.
HAHA, sounds really serious for a sec and as though this is some kinda confession session.
Nah, not really, it's more of an appreciation, counting my blessing as of now.
Looking back at how He have arranged and has the best planning for me which I don't see then..
I can't seem to tilt this pic :(((
I believe that friendships, or any types of relationship, is a mutual kinda thing.
It requires maintenance such as effort and time spent together to keep it going.
And I am ashamed to say that, 4 years ago, I did not do my part as a friend to keep in close contact or rather constant contact with all of my good friends.
Priscilla, Fiona, Huimin, Wanting...
Qiheng, Joel, Zhongyan, Bryan, Marcus, Haojie...
Except for Michelle, my bestie, whom I've always been close to throughout these years but got even closer recently too ^^
I just let it slipped by me and I didn't really think that I could have lost this friendship then..
Now, when I try to recall what could have been the possible causes of my negligence then, the only possible reason that I came up with, was my time spent in poly and the workload.
I could only spend majority of my time in school or outside school but with the usuals (char, liwei, keith, jasper, calla, ningwei etc.).
Like I keep joking with liwei and char that we see each other so much that we can puke at the sight of each other's faces and we are such no-lifers hanging out in school or around school to do projects or MUGGG together.
HAHA, quite funny... But I really did enjoy the times spent with them as well. My bestest girls in poly, liwei and char who stood by me through thick and thin (and I really mean THICK and THIN)
Even our T.G.I.Fs were spent together in town shopping!
So, this is the turning point, where everything starts to piece back together.
During year 3, I seem to always bump into my secondary school mates coincidentally, be it in school or outta school and we started talking again.
From hi-bye, to small talks, to casual chats, to inviting me for clique meet-ups, to reminiscing the past.
It was really breaking the ice and getting through the awkward stage, to what we use to have in the past.
I really really treasure the bonds we have now. =3
And am really thankful that they have never ever leave me out, or rather is more than willing to accept me back again.
Now do you see the replica of this facial expression?
And so, these are the pics which NPY have suggested to post up!
And I'm more than happy to be able to patch things up with my NPY, Prissy, Pipi, Lalian, Pipilalian!
And I really didn't think that we can be as close or maybe even closer now!
And like what you always say, NPY, "Distance doesn't measure how close 2 persons are, nor the frequency of meet-ups, it's just a feeling that stays between these 2 people."
Likka corny uhh~
But yet meaningful to me ^^
And I always like sleeping over at her place, gives me a very warm feeling when I'm with her!
Loveeeeeeeeee npy!
Looking forward to Show Luo's Concert with her this friday!
Counting down already! 2 more daysss!
And we're still thinking of our outfit for that night! ><
Girls just wanna have fun!
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